Domestic Violence
Fathers for Equal Rights believes domestic violence is unacceptable, no matter who commits it or against whom. We also believe domestic violence allegations deserve careful, fair review — because false allegations, when they happen, can be devastating to a parent-child relationship and should never be used as a tactic to gain the upper hand in a custody case.
Research on domestic violence is more complicated than the public narrative often suggests: several large academic studies have found that violence within relationships is frequently mutual, and that men are victimized more often than commonly assumed. We share that research because it matters for how courts, and society, respond to abuse allegations — not to minimize abuse, but to make sure every case is judged on its actual facts.
The articles in this section cover recognizing real abuse, understanding how false-allegation cases unfold, and what to do if you’re facing one.
False Child Sexual Abuse Charge
Why presenting a strong grand jury defense early matters in false child sexual abuse allegations.
Read more →The Truth About Domestic Violence
Research shows domestic violence is more complicated than the common narrative — both men and women can be victims.
Read more →False Allegation: Child Sex Abuse
What to do if you're facing a false child sexual abuse allegation in a custody case.
Read more →Domestic Violence At Men
Domestic violence against men is real and underreported — resources and support are available.
Read more →Fighting False Allegations
Practical steps for parents facing a false child-abuse allegation.
Read more →False Claims Used Against Fathers
Why discovery of an expert's full file and methodology matters in custody cases involving mental-health evaluations.
Read more →Discrimination Against Men
FER supports equal access to domestic-violence support services regardless of gender.
Read more →Criminal Defense Attorneys
What to look for when choosing a criminal defense attorney for a domestic violence or abuse allegation.
Read more →Reporting Laws & False Allegations
How Texas's mandatory CPS reporting law works, and what it means if a report is filed against you.
Read more →Child Abuse Prevention
Recognizing the signs of physical, emotional, and sexual abuse or neglect.
Read more →How To Talk About Abuse
Simple, direct guidance to help children understand abuse and know how to get help.
Read more →California Appeals Court Ruling
A 2008 California appeals court ruling required DV support programs to be open to male victims too.
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