The key isn’t when you’re ready to start potty training — it’s when your child is. Starting too early is the most common cause of setbacks. Readiness usually shows up between ages 1 and 3, and girls are often ready before boys.
Signs of readiness
- Can walk, and stays dry for longer stretches (including after naps)
- Understands words like “potty” and what’s expected
- Can tell you when they’re uncomfortable, and wants to learn
What helps
- Make the toilet easy to reach, with a step stool or child seat
- Use cloth training pants rather than pull-ups that feel like diapers
- Praise progress without making a huge deal of it
- Never scold accidents — they’re normal
- If accidents pile up, take a break and try again later